I am reading a book right now on Warrior
Queens in which the author celebrates the most powerful female warriors in our
history who also were in positions of great power or royalty. There is a point that keeps getting repeated throughout
the book, and that is the dichotomy that each female warrior is playing with,
specifically that of her sexuality. On
the one hand the majority of historians describe these woman with an insatiable
sexual appetite, however, in order for them to maintain power which was
commonly achieved through church connections the woman must have the virtue of
chastity. To quote Andrew Lloyd Webbers’ Evita, “A fantasy of the bedroom and a
saint” (a common quote for me I know).
This duality of female sexuality has been
written about in hundreds of books, and achieved by thousands of woman
throughout our history. The dynamics are
constantly changing as the societies we are a part of constantly try and change
the rules to suit their own means. The
sexuality of the female is a political bargaining chip. Woman’s bodies become a player in a massive
political game for control, which is obviously a big problem. The issues of birth control and abortion are
political platforms, whereas I am not aware of any platform that has been created
around a vasectomy.
I recently wrote a post called Something About Ducks, where I shared my knowledge
of how female ducks were able to evolve to prevent fertilization due to male duck
rape. Imagine my surprise to hear that
in the US a politician named Akin actually believed that human females could
not get pregnant if they were raped. I
can honestly say that up until a few years ago I knew very little about my body
and the hormonal wonders it goes through each month. I now use an ovulation calendar to really
stay in tune with my ever changing hormones (of course a little skewed due to
the pill). I say this with humility, in
that I barely know my body, how can politicians have any say in what we can or
cannot do with something that they too obviously know so little about. Why are woman allowing any sort of
conversation or platform to be developed around our bodies?
I guess I bring this up, not necessarily to
try and sway people’s opinions one way or the other regarding what should and
should not be allowed when it comes to woman’s bodies. But more so to question why woman have not
united together to find a way to just end all discussion on the matter. Vasectomies do not make the news, so why
should birth control pills? What is
constantly fuelling debates of this objectifying nature? Ultimately individuals are going to find a
way to do what they want or need to do, and woman need to stop rising to the
challenge by not even discussing or debate these ‘issues’.
We need to take a lesson from our history
books, where there are many woman who had the skills to be damn near sexual
deviants and still be virgins in the church’s eyes, and they never discussed a
thing either way, rather they just lived.
Many have skillfully pulled off this dichotomy in the past, and it is
time to look there for the education to overcome the obstacles we face
now. Instead of forcing our vaginas onto
the faces of politics, I think we would be a lot better off by just shutting
down any more nonsense about even debating this. Life will find a way, and if we want to make
a choice about whether or not to live our lives a certain way, no amount of
government intervention is going to hold us down, at least not for any length
of time. By taking our bodies off the
platform of discussion we will take control back of our bodies.
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